These Words…

melted my heart and brought tears to my eyes. The author is writing about a children’s cartoon series that may end because the creator is afraid he can’t keep the quality up.

On top of the sleepless nights, the endless hours to fill, and, yes, all that joy, raising a kid is one long experience of loss. We lose the 1-year-old with his arms outstretched to be picked up, the 4-year-old bravely marching to his first day of preschool, the 6-year-old who just wants to snuggle on the couch and watch Bluey.

They’re replaced by new people we can’t wait to meet, but the ones they were, the ones we knew and loved, they’re gone forever.

Maybe that’s why I love Bluey so much — so much I almost hope it ends now, at its zenith. Watching it is a time capsule for a moment I would hold onto with all my strength, even as I know I can’t. I suspect Brumm knows that too.
—Brian Walsh, Everything Ends, Even Bluey

Wow. Just wow.

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Hurray for Levers!

Give me a lever long enough and a fulcrum on which to place it, and I shall move the world.
—Archimedes

So, having solved the problem of the backup camera cover, Andy decided to check that he could turn the lug nuts on a tire if he ever need to change it. He first tried this wrench,

but he wasn’t strong enough to move the lug nut. So he added this long piece of pipe for leverage,

and it worked fine. Hurray for tools, and for Andy checking it out now, just in case.

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More About the Backup Camera

This is an Amazon photo about one of the two new camera covers we bought. We don’t care whether or not it gives the Jeep more personality, but the picture does show how the camera, mounted on the back of the car, protrudes from the hole in the spare tire wheel.

Here’s a picture of the camera on our Jeep without a cover:

The two covers looked very similar, and one of them had an alan wrench with the T-40 Torx bit we need.

Unlocked:

Locked:

I installed one of them:

And put the other one and the alan wrench in the glove compartment.

Then to show what the camera shows in the daylight, I asked Andy to come down, put the Jeep in reverse (with his foot on the brake), and take a video of the screen with my iPhone. I tried to make a YouTube video of it, but it was short and YouTube made it repeat in an endless loop. So here are two frames:

Every time we turn around there are new things we don’t understand. It keeps our little grey cells and our sense of humor working.

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Backup Cameras

Usually when we hear the word “camera” we think of this definition:

Camera: A usually portable device containing a photosensitive surface that records images through a lens.

That’s not what the backup cameras on newer cars are. They are video cameras:

A camera that captures moving images and converts them into electronic signals so that they can be saved on a storage device, such as videotape or a hard drive, or viewed on a monitor.

Backup cameras don’t save images, they show them on a screen on the dashboard. I answered comments last night after it was dark, but Andy and I went out to take these pictures.

Andy had to sit there with the car in reverse (he had his foot on the brake) for the images to appear on the screen.

This video shows you a fellow with a slightly different system using his camera to back into a parking spot.

We’re not about to get that fancy!

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That Plastic Thing

We had assumed that plastic thing was to prevent people from stealing spare tires from the dealers. We’ve read that it’s a serious problem nowadays. Andy says even though the latch broke it still is solidly on the Jeep…it has to be pried off.

So he didn’t think we needed to replace it, but I was curious and spent a long time Saturday trying to see if we could get a replacement. The first thing I learned was it is not there to keep the tire from being stolen. Spare tire locks are completely different.

So what the heck was the plastic thing for? I found a site that had all the parts for our Jeep and it turned out it’s a camera cover. They’re inexpensive so I bought a couple. I’ll let you know if they fit.

As usual, life is one adventure after another.

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The Spare Tire

So, most people recognized this as a wheel and tire. (I would have been like Myra and would have had to wait for the explanation.). But it wasn’t a wheel being used so there were no missing lug nuts. It was mounted on the back of the Jeep as a spare tire.

The problem was Andy noticed that if he needed to use the spare he couldn’t get to the bottom lug nut. So he assumed the purpose of that middle plastic thing was to prevent someone from stealing the tire.

So he phoned our salesman at Lithia Motors, who wanted a picture of what we had. When the salesman saw the picture he said no problem. The Jeep came with a tool kit which had the torx bit Andy needed to take the plastic thing off. That sounded great, except Andy wasn’t sure if he actually had the kit and if he did have it it was buried under all the valuable things he had moved from the old Jeep.

That turned out not to be a big problem. Andy had a T-40 torx bit that fit the hole.

That and a wrench was enough to move the latch holding the plastic thing on. So in an emergency Andy can now use the spare.

The latch on the plastic thing did break when he turned the bit the way he was supposed to, but I’ll write about that tomorrow.

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Why Would Andy…

take this picture and send it to someone? (Click on picture for higher resolution.)

What is it a picture of, and why would someone want to see it? Can you guess?

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Growing Things

This comic reminds me of the lush garden we had up on the land for a couple of years.

Then the animals discovered it and we had to replace it with our first greenhouse.

I wrote about our experience in Our Garden in the Woods, a 2008 post:

garden in the woods

I recently read Peter Mayle’s Encore Provence, and I loved his reason for not having a garden:

It would be fighting nature, and nature always wins. It has more stamina and it never stops for lunch.

Peter Mayle is a wise man. His quote reminds me of a friend of mine who said one spring:

I love this time of year! The new plants are spouting and growing…before they get eaten by the deer and beaten down by the hail.

And that was down here in town, where the elevation is only 7200 feet.

So I suppose some people would call our garden in the woods, at an elevation of 8800 feet, an exercise in foolishness. The picture above shows me walking down the path to the garden. The figure slightly to the left of center is Kaitlin looking at the garden.

rototilling the soil
 
lush garden

In fact, it was a fun adventure and we were successful for a while. We carefully hauled down sacks and sacks of sterilized manure each year and rototilled them into the soil. And we did produce some lush cold-weather crops…crops that needed more warmth didn’t do as well. We harvested most of our tomatoes after the first snow flurries, while they were still green.

Unfortunately just growing crops isn’t enough.

Animals Don’t Understand Sharing

There are a lot more animals than humans up there. Now we didn’t mind sharing. We thought it was cute when we saw a pile of pea pods, neatly stripped of the peas, under the leafy protection of Kaitlin’s pumpkin plant. We didn’t even mind the ground squirrel chattering at us when we stayed in “his” garden too long. But he eventually ignored us and came in to harvest even though we were there. (We tried two different fences, but they couldn’t keep him out.) It did bother us when we were admiring our handiwork and saw a wheat stalk topple over in front of our eyes, And the last straw was when we watched a bean plant disappear into the soil, to be replaced by a gopher hole.

Andy’s solution was to set traps and kill the animals, but I didn’t care about the produce as much as watching the plants grow. And killing animals does not make my little corner of the world a friendlier place.

The Greenhouse

inside greenhouse
 
greenhouse partially underground
 
inside greenhouse

Andy had always dreamed of having a greenhouse, so we decided to spend the money and have one built. The garden was about 30 feet by 50 feet, and the greenhouse is 25 feet by 75 feet… big enough to do some good.

The walls are cinderblock and the roof glass. The left wall in the picture of the inside is about 7 feet high, the one on the right 9 feet high.

The second snapshot shows how the higher wall is nestled into the slope of the land to conserve heat.

We asked the contractor to save all the precious soil we had laboriously built up, but he forgot. It ended up buried under the concrete porch. So we built up more soil by growing “green manure”, crops that nurture the soil when rototilled in. It didn’t take long before we were producing good crops again.

We had several years of bountiful harvests before the drought hit and our well couldn’t produce enough water for the plants. My husband has great hopes that the drought will eventually end, but I’m relaxed either way. I’m glad we did it, but I’m happy to move on.

A Waste of Time?
Was our garden in the woods a waste of time and money? Were we foolish to do it? Not in my book. For me growing a garden is like raising a child, I do it for the joy of being involved and watching things grow. I do it for the process, not for the end result. When we bought the land we knew it could be devastated by forest fires at any time. The fact is, we’re been lucky to have had that many good years up there. We managed to have some good harvests, but even more important we had a great shared adventure and have years of precious memories.

What About You?
Have you ever done something that other people might have thought foolish or that didn’t turn out the way you had hoped? How do you feel about it? Are you more focused on productivity and achievement than in enjoying the adventure of life? Do you think the two approaches are incompatible?

We didn’t have a chance to use the greenhouse again before the 2011 fire destroyed it… along with our trees, house, shed, and well house. Our new greenhouse was the last to be built, in 2019. We’re not planting nearly as much now, but we’re still enjoying it.

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How True!

Monday’s post about taking pictures of food reminds me of this 2021 post:

Another thing we did last Saturday was share our plum harvest. Andy had picked it earlier in the day.

It was only one, and only a couple of inches long, but it was very tasty…Andy managed to pick it just right. We’re hoping for a few more next year.

Some of the simplest things can bring the most pleasure.

In fact, we didn’t get more plums in 2022 because the wildfire destroyed the tree. We tried to order a new one last year but everyone was out. Last night I mentioned to Andy it was probably too late in life for us to try planting another one now. He said, no, he wanted to try. So we got out the Gurney’s catalog, went online and ordered two of them. Andy claims he’ll have time, and be able, to plant them. We’ll see. Do you think he’s too hopeful about ever harvesting a plum again?

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I Didn’t Know That!

Eclipse Reminder – Earth is the only planet that we know of that has a perfect solar eclipse, since our moon happens to be about the exact same size as our sun when seen from the surface.

As far as we know this is a coincidence, and about a one in a trillion bit of luck.
@Jac5Connor

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