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	<title>Comments on: Opening Our Hearts, Expanding Our Minds</title>
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		<title>By: Jean</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/04/14/opening-our-hearts-expanding-our-minds/comment-page-1/#comment-886</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2008 04:54:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Evelyn,
Thanks.  So often we spend so much time berating ourselves for not being perfect that we don&#039;t focus on doing what we can, imperfect though that might be.  

Daz,
Yes, listening!  It&#039;s not always easy to do.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Evelyn,<br />
Thanks.  So often we spend so much time berating ourselves for not being perfect that we don&#8217;t focus on doing what we can, imperfect though that might be.  </p>
<p>Daz,<br />
Yes, listening!  It&#8217;s not always easy to do.  <img src='http://cheerfulmonk.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Daz Cox</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/04/14/opening-our-hearts-expanding-our-minds/comment-page-1/#comment-881</link>
		<dc:creator>Daz Cox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 20:07:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ahhh listening.....yes!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ahhh listening&#8230;..yes!</p>
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		<title>By: Evelyn Lim</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/04/14/opening-our-hearts-expanding-our-minds/comment-page-1/#comment-880</link>
		<dc:creator>Evelyn Lim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 15:05:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello, I like what you said &quot;It doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful.&quot;  To the recipient, just the small opening of your heart to him may be all that he needs. 

With love,
Evelyn</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, I like what you said &#8220;It doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful.&#8221;  To the recipient, just the small opening of your heart to him may be all that he needs. </p>
<p>With love,<br />
Evelyn</p>
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		<title>By: Jean</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/04/14/opening-our-hearts-expanding-our-minds/comment-page-1/#comment-879</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 05:02:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert,
Thanks for your input.  For me it&#039;s curiosity rather than hunger.  We&#039;re all different, and that&#039;s why I love it when people join in the conversation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert,<br />
Thanks for your input.  For me it&#8217;s curiosity rather than hunger.  We&#8217;re all different, and that&#8217;s why I love it when people join in the conversation.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert @ reason4smile</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/04/14/opening-our-hearts-expanding-our-minds/comment-page-1/#comment-878</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert @ reason4smile</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2008 15:45:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think what makes it work for me is the hungriness. More of the unsatisfaction of what I am and what I have achieved today...
makes me hungry to learn more..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think what makes it work for me is the hungriness. More of the unsatisfaction of what I am and what I have achieved today&#8230;<br />
makes me hungry to learn more..</p>
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		<title>By: Jean</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/04/14/opening-our-hearts-expanding-our-minds/comment-page-1/#comment-876</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2008 03:19:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>bikehikebabe,
:) I&#039;m glad it worked for you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>bikehikebabe,<br />
 <img src='http://cheerfulmonk.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I&#8217;m glad it worked for you.</p>
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		<title>By: bikehikebabe</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/04/14/opening-our-hearts-expanding-our-minds/comment-page-1/#comment-874</link>
		<dc:creator>bikehikebabe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 20:24:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Women are more accepting &amp; enjoying each other&#039;s company now. 30 &amp; 40 years ago, we were critical &amp; competing with each other. We didn&#039;t interact together. If I had a problem, I didn&#039;t want anyone else to know. &quot;Opening my heart &amp; expanding my  mind&quot; to include other viewpoints did the magic.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Women are more accepting &amp; enjoying each other&#8217;s company now. 30 &amp; 40 years ago, we were critical &amp; competing with each other. We didn&#8217;t interact together. If I had a problem, I didn&#8217;t want anyone else to know. &#8220;Opening my heart &amp; expanding my  mind&#8221; to include other viewpoints did the magic.</p>
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		<title>By: Jean</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 03:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brian,
I&#039;m with you...I like to explore different fields to keep my mental world fairly large.  I also do it because the world is changing rapidly right now, and my &quot;mental map&quot; needs to keep changing to keep up.

Shilpan,
Thanks for coming by.  I like your blog and will visit again soon.  

David,
I like your idea of listening to the world and to our own selves, too.  In fact, I don&#039;t think we can truly listen to someone else if we&#039;re not centered and tuned into ourselves.  

Thank you all for coming by.  For an example of extreme listening you might like my latest post at Transforming Stress: &lt;a href=&quot;http://stresstopower.com/blog/2008/04/13/what-i-learned-from-being-a-listening-post/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;What I Learned From Being a Listening Post&lt;/a&gt;.  As I said, I&#039;m not at all sorry I did it, but I&#039;m not sure I will ever do it to that extent again.  If you do read it, please let me know what you think.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brian,<br />
I&#8217;m with you&#8230;I like to explore different fields to keep my mental world fairly large.  I also do it because the world is changing rapidly right now, and my &#8220;mental map&#8221; needs to keep changing to keep up.</p>
<p>Shilpan,<br />
Thanks for coming by.  I like your blog and will visit again soon.  </p>
<p>David,<br />
I like your idea of listening to the world and to our own selves, too.  In fact, I don&#8217;t think we can truly listen to someone else if we&#8217;re not centered and tuned into ourselves.  </p>
<p>Thank you all for coming by.  For an example of extreme listening you might like my latest post at Transforming Stress: <a href="http://stresstopower.com/blog/2008/04/13/what-i-learned-from-being-a-listening-post/" rel="nofollow">What I Learned From Being a Listening Post</a>.  As I said, I&#8217;m not at all sorry I did it, but I&#8217;m not sure I will ever do it to that extent again.  If you do read it, please let me know what you think.</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Apr 2008 18:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jean,

I do think listening changes the world.  For me, opening my heart and expanding my mind is about slowing down, taking time out in the day to pause and reflect.

This is loving others through listening to them.  I also think it means listening to the world, being aware of the noises or the silence around me.

It can mean listening to my body too - taking a moment to be aware of how I feel, physically, emotionally and spiritually.

Thank you for your blog.  I have just discovered it, and I find it really inspirational.

David</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jean,</p>
<p>I do think listening changes the world.  For me, opening my heart and expanding my mind is about slowing down, taking time out in the day to pause and reflect.</p>
<p>This is loving others through listening to them.  I also think it means listening to the world, being aware of the noises or the silence around me.</p>
<p>It can mean listening to my body too &#8211; taking a moment to be aware of how I feel, physically, emotionally and spiritually.</p>
<p>Thank you for your blog.  I have just discovered it, and I find it really inspirational.</p>
<p>David</p>
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		<title>By: Shilpan &#124;  successsoul.com</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/04/14/opening-our-hearts-expanding-our-minds/comment-page-1/#comment-870</link>
		<dc:creator>Shilpan &#124;  successsoul.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Apr 2008 12:16:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jean,

You have knack of getting point across well concisely. &quot;Yesterday is dead, tomorrow is unborn. Why am I loosing what&#039;s embracing me with open arm today ?,&quot;  That&#039;s what I remind myself today. Great point.Please visit my blog when you get a chance.

Thanks
Shilpan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jean,</p>
<p>You have knack of getting point across well concisely. &#8220;Yesterday is dead, tomorrow is unborn. Why am I loosing what&#8217;s embracing me with open arm today ?,&#8221;  That&#8217;s what I remind myself today. Great point.Please visit my blog when you get a chance.</p>
<p>Thanks<br />
Shilpan</p>
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