<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: The Power and Perils of Goal-Setting</title>
	<atom:link href="http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/07/the-power-and-perils-of-goal-setting/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/07/the-power-and-perils-of-goal-setting/</link>
	<description>Happiness As a Spiritual Practice</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 23:08:36 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator>
	<item>
		<title>By: tammy</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/07/the-power-and-perils-of-goal-setting/comment-page-1/#comment-17515</link>
		<dc:creator>tammy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2011 20:43:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://cheerfulmonk.com/?p=492#comment-17515</guid>
		<description>i love it when you and bhb talk about your own life stories!
and yes... that is a dear picture of that wee bear just trying to eat some cherries. poor little guy, to be that hungry to walk into the danger zone that you know his mommy told him to stay away from!
i didn&#039;t see myself as a queen. but i fell so hard and stayed &quot;fallen&quot; for the entire time we were married, that i did treat my bob like a prince. he looked like one. he was one! 
i was definitely not just the scullery maid. but he remained the prince. and would still be, had he lived. would have loved to grow old with that man.
oh well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i love it when you and bhb talk about your own life stories!<br />
and yes&#8230; that is a dear picture of that wee bear just trying to eat some cherries. poor little guy, to be that hungry to walk into the danger zone that you know his mommy told him to stay away from!<br />
i didn&#8217;t see myself as a queen. but i fell so hard and stayed &#8220;fallen&#8221; for the entire time we were married, that i did treat my bob like a prince. he looked like one. he was one!<br />
i was definitely not just the scullery maid. but he remained the prince. and would still be, had he lived. would have loved to grow old with that man.<br />
oh well.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Diane</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/07/the-power-and-perils-of-goal-setting/comment-page-1/#comment-2098</link>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 02:38:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://cheerfulmonk.com/?p=492#comment-2098</guid>
		<description>Me too!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Me too!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jean</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/07/the-power-and-perils-of-goal-setting/comment-page-1/#comment-2095</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 02:13:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://cheerfulmonk.com/?p=492#comment-2095</guid>
		<description>Diane,
I agree, we don&#039;t have to take formal classes to learn new things.  I learn best by buying books and trying things.  I&#039;m a problem solver at heart.  

Thanks for coming by.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Diane,<br />
I agree, we don&#8217;t have to take formal classes to learn new things.  I learn best by buying books and trying things.  I&#8217;m a problem solver at heart.  </p>
<p>Thanks for coming by.  <img src='http://cheerfulmonk.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Diane</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/07/the-power-and-perils-of-goal-setting/comment-page-1/#comment-2091</link>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 22:07:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://cheerfulmonk.com/?p=492#comment-2091</guid>
		<description>I had a goal to just feed my passions and let go of my volunteering for the first time in my life. It was like giving up a baby to me... And reall get focused on a specific goal I had with art . And then evryone was sick..or and I just kept learning just not what I intended to be focusing on...Though I manage to take a couple of classes here and there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a goal to just feed my passions and let go of my volunteering for the first time in my life. It was like giving up a baby to me&#8230; And reall get focused on a specific goal I had with art . And then evryone was sick..or and I just kept learning just not what I intended to be focusing on&#8230;Though I manage to take a couple of classes here and there.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jean</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/07/the-power-and-perils-of-goal-setting/comment-page-1/#comment-1190</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2008 19:35:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://cheerfulmonk.com/?p=492#comment-1190</guid>
		<description>It stands to reason, then, that you would have expected to be a queen, too.  Life is full of surprises...as I said above, it sounds as if you handled it just fine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It stands to reason, then, that you would have expected to be a queen, too.  Life is full of surprises&#8230;as I said above, it sounds as if you handled it just fine.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: bikehikebabe</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/07/the-power-and-perils-of-goal-setting/comment-page-1/#comment-1187</link>
		<dc:creator>bikehikebabe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2008 01:37:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://cheerfulmonk.com/?p=492#comment-1187</guid>
		<description>Now that you mention it, yes my mother was &quot;Queen of the Castle&quot;. Mother treated him like a King though. My father was hard working and quiet like my husband. I think of my hubby as a King, but I don&#039;t always treat him like one. :(  Times have changed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now that you mention it, yes my mother was &#8220;Queen of the Castle&#8221;. Mother treated him like a King though. My father was hard working and quiet like my husband. I think of my hubby as a King, but I don&#8217;t always treat him like one. <img src='http://cheerfulmonk.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />   Times have changed.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jean</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/07/the-power-and-perils-of-goal-setting/comment-page-1/#comment-1186</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2008 01:22:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://cheerfulmonk.com/?p=492#comment-1186</guid>
		<description>Evelyn,
Glad you like the site.  bikehikebabe took two great pictures, didn&#039;t she?  

I haven&#039;t watched Kung Fu Panda---I see my movies via Netflix.  I&#039;ve now added KFP to my list...presumably they&#039;ll tell me when it&#039;s released.  I&#039;m always grateful for suggestions. :) Thanks. 

bikehikebabe,
I imagine it was a big surprise.  But you clearly handled it just fine!  What were your father and your mother like?  was she Queen of the Castle?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Evelyn,<br />
Glad you like the site.  bikehikebabe took two great pictures, didn&#8217;t she?  </p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t watched Kung Fu Panda&#8212;I see my movies via Netflix.  I&#8217;ve now added KFP to my list&#8230;presumably they&#8217;ll tell me when it&#8217;s released.  I&#8217;m always grateful for suggestions. <img src='http://cheerfulmonk.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Thanks. </p>
<p>bikehikebabe,<br />
I imagine it was a big surprise.  But you clearly handled it just fine!  What were your father and your mother like?  was she Queen of the Castle?</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: bikehikebabe</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/07/the-power-and-perils-of-goal-setting/comment-page-1/#comment-1185</link>
		<dc:creator>bikehikebabe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 14:18:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://cheerfulmonk.com/?p=492#comment-1185</guid>
		<description>Yes, I was surprised. When I got married I thought I&#039;d be &quot;Queen of the Castle&quot; &amp; my husband would entertain me. I found I had to entertain myself. It was a shock. But I had 4 kids &amp; got interested in a lot of things. It all worked out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I was surprised. When I got married I thought I&#8217;d be &#8220;Queen of the Castle&#8221; &amp; my husband would entertain me. I found I had to entertain myself. It was a shock. But I had 4 kids &amp; got interested in a lot of things. It all worked out.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Evelyn Lim &#124; Attraction Mind Map</title>
		<link>http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/07/the-power-and-perils-of-goal-setting/comment-page-1/#comment-1182</link>
		<dc:creator>Evelyn Lim &#124; Attraction Mind Map</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 07:18:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://cheerfulmonk.com/?p=492#comment-1182</guid>
		<description>Have you watched Kung Fu Panda, the movie?  In the show, the panda was motivated to practise martial arts, because of his &quot;greed&quot; for food.  

Great site you have here!  It is my first visit here.  Love the pictures that you have put up!

Evelyn</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you watched Kung Fu Panda, the movie?  In the show, the panda was motivated to practise martial arts, because of his &#8220;greed&#8221; for food.  </p>
<p>Great site you have here!  It is my first visit here.  Love the pictures that you have put up!</p>
<p>Evelyn</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>

