After all these years a few of the lines from Kipling’s poem If have suddenly popped up and have been going through my head. Here’s the poem:
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!
We memorized the poem in grammar school. The sexism didn’t bother me — the sentiment resonated and stuck. The lines
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
are especially relevant today. Yes, things are getting scary, and there are no guarantees. But that’s no reason to get discouraged and beaten down.
October 19, 2025
I don’t believe I’ve ever read this whole poem before. It’s a very good poem. Life is full of negativity but it’s so much easier if you can keep your head and rise above it.
Yes, live your values and don’t get sucked into the hatred and nastiness.
…amen, sister.
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Yes, that’s a very insightful poem.
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I don’t think I’ve read this poem before today. Yes, those two lines are relevant today.
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Oh, been so long since I have read this!
Thanks. Good reminders, for sure. 🙂
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I remember this well. But it seems not as popular nowadays. that last line I really struggle with. Because I am trying so hard not to hate Trump and the other Magas. Hate does give way to hate.
Yes, it’s worth working on. 🙂
Very good poem. ?
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I have always LOVED this poem.
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Powerful! Like our friend Victor has shared, Discouragement is Satan’s best weapon.
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I’m familiar with this one, but I certainly haven’t given it enough attention. Thank you for sharing.
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