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This reminds me of Zoe. She’s a lively, vocal pup. Tempi describes how Zoe reacted when they were driving to the Supercharger and saw this turkey in the road.

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Zoe went wild and Torben had to hold on to her leash to keep her from jumping out the window. (She was riding shotgun and had managed to roll down the window?) Anyway the turkey moved on and things settled down.

Until they were on their way home and Kaitlin warned Torben there were turkeys in their yard:

Torben did the prudent thing and drove around until the turkeys were gone. Hurray for cellphones!

This was a much shorter story than the one a few days ago when Zoe managed to crawl under the fence to run after a deer. Tempi describes that chaos here.

July 29, 2025

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July 28, 2025

isn’t very good, but the pup reminds me of Tempi. (Click on link or picture.)

She left the humans she came with to sit at another table.

I’ll ask Kaitlin and Torben what they think.

July 27, 2027

This pup is an inspiration. Click on the picture to see him.

July 26, 2025

There are many elements of living a good life, but the first and most foundational is to love yourself and enjoy spending time with yourself.

Go do things on your own so you learn to trust your mind and view it as a welcome companion. If someone declared, “Tomorrow you must spend the day alone” the hope is that you would reply, “That sounds like a good day!”

The person who is at ease within finds every other space larger and more enjoyable.
—James Clear

As a society we value extroverts and are suspicious of people who enjoy spending time alone. Not me! What about you?

July 25, 2025

Life is always progressing to the next stage. As you enter a new season, habits that previously served you well may need to be refreshed or adjusted. Which one of your current habits have you outgrown and is in need of a change?
—James Clear

The big one for me is making sure the apartment looks neat before I go to bed at night. Before my apartment was my play pen. If I got immersed in a project I didn’t mind if things got untidy. I knew when the mood struck I would put things back in order until the next immersion. Andy didn’t mind so it was a fine way of operating.

Then after I broke my hip last fall Kaitlin convinced me to have Merry Maids come in every two weeks to clean. I was tickled to see how easy it was switch to my new system. Who would have guessed?

More changes will be coming, of course. Even if our health holds, Andy is getting slower and has fewer reserves. He may be spending more time down here in the winter, for instance.

So continuing to do the best we can with what we have left.

Or, to quote Alfred, Lord Tennyson,

Come, my friends,
‘Tis not too late to seek a newer world.
….
Though much is taken, much abides; and though
We are not now that strength which in old days
Moved earth and heaven, that which we are, we are,
One equal temper of heroic hearts,
Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will
To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.

The idea of Andy and I ever having “heroic hearts” is good for a laugh, but strong spirits in weakening bodies? Yeah, that works.

July 24, 2025

Tempi was curling up with A Long Way Gone. Have you curled up with a good book lately?

July 23, 2025

Mark Parisi

That reminds me of a standing comedy piece that makes me laugh every time I think of it. The fellow was probably in his 40s and was talking about his parents and old people. He said when people of his own age start to trip over something they immediately catch themselves and keep walking. He demonstrated. Then he said it’s different for old people. If they trip their mind tells their body and the body answers,

Huh?

That was so true for me. When I fell exactly one year ago, I was happily using my 7″ high stepper while reading the Spanish subtitles of a video I was streaming. Until I noticed I was falling. I was surprised but not upset, and I didn’t try to soften the fall. My mind was absorbed by the surprise and my body just went thunk!

I still laugh when I think of it, even though I couldn’t come back home for six weeks. (I decided not to have surgery so I couldn’t put any weight on that leg. That meant I couldn’t climb the stairs to our apartment.) I’m clearly doing my best to avoid that happening again, but on the whole it was a positive experience.

Anyway, lesson learned. No multitasking if there’s any danger of falling. 🙂

July 22, 2025

It was yesterday, the third Sunday in July, but I read about it too late for this post. That is no doubt why NBC10Boston posted an article about Kaitlin and Torben’s favorite ice cream stand.

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…there really is something special about an ice cream stand situated in a quiet, pastoral area, and the Carlisle location of Kimball Farm pretty much serves as a blueprint for such a place.

Yes! Kaitlin and Torben took us there twice when we visited in
2021.

The second time Andy and I got a banana split to share.

Happy memories.

July 21, 2025

The term “Left Gaze Bias” refers to humans’ tendency to look towards the left side of a new persons face when they meet (or the right-hand side of the person.) There really isn’t a well-documented explanation for this, but it only occurs when we encounter the face of another person and not when looking at other new objects or places for the first time. It is said that we naturally do this because the right side of the human face shows emotion more consistently and truthfully.
—What is the “Left Gaze Bias” and why do dogs use this?

Yes, dogs do it too. But only when interacting with humans, not when looking at objects or other animals. How cool is that!

July 20, 2025