Never lose the childlike wonder. It’s just too important. It’s what drives us.
I’m sorry I won’t be around to raise my kids. It makes me very sad but I can’t change that fact, so I did everything I could with the time I have and the time I had to help other people.
Someone’s going to push my family off a cliff pretty soon and I won’t be there to catch them and that breaks my heart. But I have some time to sew some nets to cushion the fall so that seems like the best and highest use of my time and I better get to work.
—Randy Pausch, October 23, 1960-July 25, 2008
Yesterday’s post reminded me of Randy, who died of pancreatic cancer in 2008. He said he was trying to keep a positive attitude, but couldn’t be sure about how he was doing. Then he received this e-mail:
… I happened to have been behind you for a few blocks as you were driving from campus last night (Monday). Before I recognized it was you, I found myself thinking, “Gee that guy is really enjoying the moment…..driving down the road on a warm, early spring evening, top down, wind blowing through his hair, with a smile on his face…..probably headed home to a wife and maybe a little one or two……that’s the way to live life.”. And then you turned left and I recognized it was you. I then found myself thinking, “It’s Randy! He looks so happy! And, in this most private of public moments (alone in his car, yet on the road for anyone to observe), I can’t imagine anyone who IS living life more. No one is more deserving!”. Thanks for sharing your happiness/your life so fully with so many of us…….on campus and in your car. You can never know how that glimpse of you tonight made my day, reminding me of what life really is all about…”
As Nightbirde said in yesterday’s video,
You can’t wait until life isn’t hard any more to decide to be happy.
Amen to that.
June 11, 2021
” You can’t wait until life isn’t hard any more to decide to be happy. ”
such beautiful wisdom in just one line.
because Life is always going to be hard in some way for All of us!
I remember Randy. he was an exceptional man.
thanks for this post!
Yes, life gives us plenty of chances to practice. 🙂
People like this are an inspiration. I can only hope that if I was I their situation I would be the same way
We have plenty of chances in our everyday lives to practice…fortunately or unfortunately. 😀
I remember first ‘meeting’ Randy while watching The Last Lecture. Subsequently, each narrative until his heartbreaking end. What a powerful legacy he left his children … and the world.
Yes, he’s clearly remembered. 🙂
I may be wrong, but I think I remember him from seeing his story on T.V. He was such an amazing and strong man.
I’m pretty sure you are remembering correctly.
I’m certainly guilty of whining about the tough, bad things. Way too often. This is an eye-opener.
Attitude makes a big difference and life gives us plenty of chances to practice. 🙂
Randy is every bit as amazing as Nightbirde. what a wonderful testimony of a life well lived. I did not know him and it still brought joy tears to my eyes to see him in my minds eye driving the convertible..
That’s the part I love the most.
As a Brit, I’ve never encountered Randy Pausch. But I’ve often met people like him who always have a very positive and upbeat attitude to life. They’re a very inspiring antidote to all those moaners who never stop complaining about life’s injustices.
Yes. 🙂
thank you