Item 1: an article I read about 60 years ago on being “nostalgic for the present.” The author noticed that every time they moved she was nostalgic for parts of the old location. Then she realized it was often for things she hadn’t consciously noticed while she had them. She decided that was dumb, so she consciously decided to start noticing and appreciating more parts of her present life, not waiting until she lost them.
Item 2: a TV version of Thorton Wilder’s Our Town that I saw about 70 years ago. Emily has died in childbirth but is given a chance to go back to life for one day. The other dead warn her not to do it, but she chooses her twelfth birthday.
She returns expecting joy, expecting to relive a happy day. Instead, she can’t bear it — everyone is so hurried and distracted. They take life, and its everyday moments, for granted. Emily has to leave because it’s too painful to watch.
Needless to say, those two incidents made a big impression on me! And those two messages explain why a lot of people are happiest in their 70s and beyond — if health problems don’t intrude too much. They do understand how short and precious life is, so they pay attention and savor it.
January 23, 2026