What Lights Your Fire?

Floats your boat? Puts pep in your step?

I love the burst of energy and enthusiasm I get when fall comes, but I need to work on it when the weather turns warm. At the moment I’m doing two things;

Reading my favorite comics first thing in the morning: I subscribe to gocomics.com and have a list of favorites there. It starts the day on the right note.

Andertoons


Remembering my avatar:
I’ve subscribed to YouTube and when I connect to it, my favorite avatar comes up:


It reminds me that happiness is a garden:

Pulling the weeds, nurturing the flowers, delighting in watching things grow.

So, do I have pep in my step right now? Am I delighting in watching things grow? Not at the moment. When I stated writing this post yesterday, I kept thinking of

I try to take one day at a time, but lately several days have been attacking me at once.

All sorts of little annoyances have been popping up lately. The biggest one is that our internet is sometimes extremely slow and even briefly loses connection. That’s one big weed! So I decided to face up to it. I’m trying to understand when it happens so I can isolate the problem and talk to a technician about it. I spent a few hours yesterday talking to my buddy, Claude AI, and he told me how to run a program in the background to record every time it goes out. It lost connection 21 times in less than 3 hours last night, so I’ll probably talk to Century Link today.

It’s not fun, but it’s better than feeling helpless. And I will no doubt feel chuffed when/if we get it straightened out. I will let you know!

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Thank You, Claude!

Wednesday Amazon told me that something I ordered last month had arrived, but it hadn’t, so I tried their automated chat and got into a loop. There was no way to tell it I needed a person. I tried a few times, hoping it would figure it out, then I asked Claude AI how to do it. The answer was easy, so I’m saving it for the future.

Here are the quickest ways to reach a live Amazon agent:

Phone Call 1-888-280-4331 (available 24/7). Say “representative” or press 0 to skip the automated system.

Chat (workaround if broken)
1 Go to amazon.com/contact-us
2 Select your order or issue
3 Choose Chat — if it’s not loading, try a different browser or incognito mode

Request a callback. On the same Contact Us page, you can choose Phone and have Amazon call you — often faster than waiting on hold.

Social media
• Twitter/X: @AmazonHelp (they respond pretty quickly via DM)

If the chat is consistently broken, the callback option or phone are your best bets.

Have you had any experience with automated chats lately?

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Different People Like Different Things

I love this comic because it seems so innocent and friendly.

But it reminds me of this one in 2016,

http://www.gocomics.com/theothercoast/2013/07/13

gocomics.com/theothercoast
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Unfortunately not everyone shares our values.

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Another Reminder

That we can’t always believe everything we think.

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Attention Spans

Betty was in a bookstore looking for a title in large print for easier reading. The seller suggested this:

Hmm. I had read that college professors have been having trouble getting students to read long assignments, so I asked ChatGPT about it.

For college students, professors across many disciplines report increasing difficulty getting students to complete long reading assignments. Researchers have documented declines in recreational reading and increases in time spent with digital media. Reading a 300-page book requires a different kind of attention than consuming information in short online bursts. Many educators argue that the issue is often less about an inability to focus and more about habits, expectations, and competing demands on attention.

For seniors, the picture is mixed. Aging can bring slower processing speed and sometimes more difficulty keeping track of complex information. At the same time, many older adults remain avid readers and can focus deeply for long periods, especially on subjects they enjoy. In fact, some studies find older adults mind-wander less than younger adults during certain tasks.

The Betty comic’s joke works because it plays on a familiar cultural anxiety: everyone seems to think somebody else’s generation has an attention-span problem. Younger people are said to be unable to read novels because of smartphones; older people are said to need everything simplified because of aging.

What’s interesting is that the market now offers:
• “Micro-fiction” and short-form content for younger readers.
• Large-print, short-chapter, or short-story collections for older readers.
• Audiobooks for all ages.
Those formats may reflect convenience and preference as much as cognitive limitations.

A question worth asking is: Can people still focus for a long time on something they care about? If the answer is yes—and for most people it is—then the issue may be less about attention span itself and more about what captures and sustains attention.

In other words, many college students who struggle to finish a novel can spend hours on a game, a hobby, or a social cause. Many seniors who enjoy short stories can also spend an afternoon quilting, gardening, researching family history, or reading about a favorite topic. Attention is often highly dependent on interest, motivation, and habit.

Well said!

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There’s a Lot of Truth in That

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Learning to Steer

I cheerfully admit, I can’t always do that — but I’m working on it!

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Patient Pup!

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Do You Agree with Him?

Do you think there is any truth at all to this?

I believe that if, at the end of it all, according to our abilities, we have done something to make others a little happier, and something to make ourselves a little happier, that is about the best we can do…

We must try to contribute joy to the world. That is true no matter what our problems, our health, our circumstances. We must try. I didn’t always know this, and am happy I lived long enough to find it out.
–Roger Ebert

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Treat Yourself Like a Toddler

Take a nap, dress comfortably, make sure you stay fed and hydrated, don’t let yourself get too bored or too overstimulated. We all know what happens if you don’t make sure to manage the physical condition of a toddler! Well, we adults are very much the same.
—Gretchen Rubin

That sounds like great advice to me!

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